A Gentle Guide by Shelley Bell Celebrant Christmas is often described as the most wonderful time of the year, but for many of us, it can also be one of the most emotional. As the lights twinkle and families gather, we may feel the presence — and the absence —…
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Real Wedding – Zoe and James
In this look back at one of 2025’s most colourful weddings we can see how little pops of colour can make such a difference to a neutral palette and how your furry family can be a part of your celebrant led ceremony. Where: The Boundary at Garons Park, Southend, SS2…
Top 10 Personalised Wedding Ceremony Ideas You’ll Love in 2025/26
Discover the top 10 personalised wedding ceremony ideas for 2025. From handfasting to personal vows, Shelley Bell Celebrant shares unique ways to make your big day truly yours. Why Personalisation Matters in Weddings Your wedding ceremony should be more than just words — it should reflect you. More and more…
Direct Cremation – What’s All The Fuss About? The Pro’s and Con’s explained…..
What Is a Direct Cremation? A direct cremation is the most basic form of cremation. It happens without a funeral service beforehand, and without mourners present at the crematorium. The body is collected, cremated, and then the ashes are returned to the family, who can choose to commemorate their loved…
You Don’t Have to Be Buried in a Box – and Other Funeral Myths
When most people think of a funeral, they picture a casket, a cemetery, and a somber service in a crematorium chapel or church. But that’s only one version of a farewell. The truth is, funerals are as diverse as the people they honour. Whether shaped by cultural heritage, spiritual beliefs,…
The Most Romantic Ceremony Ideas for a Celebrant-Led Wedding.
When it comes to saying “I do,” nothing is more special than a ceremony that truly reflects your love story. Unlike traditional weddings, a celebrant-led ceremony allows you to create a unique and deeply personal experience, incorporating any rituals, settings, and vows you desire. Whether you dream of exchanging vows…
Meet my Supplier Chums!!! Jade at Coop Funeral Care.
After my last blog which talked about personalising ceremonies, whether they are weddings or funerals, it is my pleasure this week to chat with Jade Pratt from Coop Funeral Care, St John’s Road in Colchester. The Coop has lots of different branches in various towns and cities but Jade’s team…
Reflecting Your Uniqueness in Weddings and Funerals.
Life’s most significant moments deserve to be celebrated in a way that truly reflects who you are. Whether it’s the joy of a wedding or the heartfelt farewell of a funeral, these events are deeply personal. A Celebrant-led ceremony offers a unique opportunity to craft a service that is as…
Is Taking Your Partner’s Name Too Outdated for Modern Times?
The tradition of taking a partner’s surname after marriage has long been a cultural norm in many societies, particularly in the Western world. However, in an era of increasing gender equality, evolving relationship dynamics, and growing inclusivity for LGBTQ+ and alternative couples, the practice is being questioned more than ever.…
To Propose or Not to Propose: The Holiday Conundrum!
Ah, the festivities are here! A time for mulled wine, questionable family board games, and the annual debate: Is proposing marriage over Christmas or New Year’s a romantic gesture or a recipe for holiday chaos? First, let’s address the elephant in the room (no, not the inflatable Santa in your…
